In plain terms, before you tick the box:
What we keep about you
Your name and contact details, what you want in a match, and the profile your person writes about you. Any photos you upload. Your ID and a selfie, used only to confirm it\u2019s really you.
Your person writes about you
Someone who knows you answers a few questions to build a warm profile, so you don\u2019t have to sell yourself. You read every word before anyone sees it. If something doesn\u2019t sit right, you can ask them to rewrite it, and nothing goes live until you approve.
Nothing happens without you
Your profile is only shown to others once you say it\u2019s ready. Every date that gets suggested needs your own private yes. You can step away at any time, and if you say \u201cno\u201d to someone, they\u2019re never told.
What others see of you
Only what you approve. You choose how much. Before any date, you both always see each other\u2019s verified name, photo and plan, so no one turns up blind.
Your rights over your data
You can download everything we hold about you any time, and ask us to delete it. Religion is sensitive, so we only keep it if you allow it, and never use it in statistics. (These are your POPIA rights.)
We keep a record
Each time you say yes, we note it with the date. Not to catch you out, just so there\u2019s a record of what you agreed to.